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Holding Out For A Fairytale

  



The questions below come directly from the book that I am currently obsessed over: When God Writes Your Love Story by Eric and Leslie Ludy. This chapter (Chapter Ten: Holding Out For A Fairytale, which is from the book also) is about singleness and how you should be happy and content during the single part of your life. It talks about how you should use this season of singleness as a time to grow closer to The Lord and find ways to praise Him and glorify Him. Here are four questions that Leslie Ludy asks at the end of her lovely chapter: 

1. What do you hope for and desire in a spouse? Are your desires based on shallow, worldly standards, or are you seeking someone with the attributes of Christ? 

2 What are the fears that compel some singels-even perhaps you-to search frantically for a spouse rather than patiently waiting on God?

3. Are you willing to wait for a Christlike girl or guy, or have you been lowering your standards out of impatience?

4. In what ways does God need to change your desires to match His desires for your life?

These questions are very mind and heart opening. I hope that you prayerfully and seriously think about these questions and about your answers. Thanks so much for checking out my blog and I sincerely hope that you find this post inspiring and helpful.

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